Unattractive

This is going to come as a shock to you. Some of you won't want to know. Andrea would be able to tell that Andrew was messaging her because of her psychic perceptions. You are going to think he's an asshole. Some of you might actually be correct. He is a bit of a jerk sometimes. He has a lot of women who he dates. Monica is a woman who he is involved with. They will tell everybody that they are friends. They might have sex on occasion. This is something Andrea has said. Well, Andrea hasn't really said it. It wouldn't be anything that was slander at all. This would be said in a message that Andrea received at her Yahoo account.

Monica would know what had happened between her and Andrew that night. Did she really go back to his apartment? Was that something that really occurred? We are going to think back to these messages from many years ago. This was in 2010 when Andrea got most of these messages.

'I want it to be that it was a stupid idea.'

Monica wants Andrea to be blamed for all of it. That Andrea messaged herself for 10 months pretending to be Andrew Jones.

'I really like that idea.' Monica thinks.

I want to think about this for a little bit. It really doesn't make a lot of sense. Lynda wants to think it was one of his ex-girlfriends. She won't want to admit that it was not. She doesn't want to admit that she has an issue with Andrea and her body weight. She wants to think Andrea isn't attractive to get any attention from Andrew. She wants to think Andrea is too chubby to possibly attract his attention.

'That is kind of an upsetting idea.'

A lot of people would find that to be an upsetting idea. Somebody who is about 20 pounds overweight being unattractive is not a very popular idea with certain groups of people. Some people think it's a very upsetting idea. This is what they make Andrea feel. The burden of Andrea's mother and her weight has a huge emotional impact. It crushes Andrea's self-esteem. She begins to feel very unattractive. This went on for a very long time. This didn't have a very good impact on Andrea's life.

'I really don't want to think that we are that sexist.'

These are sexist ideas that women toss at each other. That an extra 30 pounds makes a woman undesirable. That no man would be attracted to a chubby woman. That this is an intolerable physical flaw. This is an idea that is very destructive and would produce a little bit of anger. You want to think that people don't get angry about being caged into a negative standard of beauty. People can get very angry about this. If Andrea's mother weighed close to 500 pounds and you hurt her over an extra 20 pounds what do you think she is going to feel? She is going to hate your guts deep down inside. She is going to rant on about how shallow you are. She is going to accuse you of being a sexist woman. She is going to think you are reinforcing something very negative. This is a very subtle thing that can make somebody furious.